Letters by Deepa

OPEN SECRETS: 'I wrote a polyamory memoir. You've probably never head of me.'

On writing a polyamory memoir outside the American bubble: who decides what gets seen, sold, and heard?

Apr 16 • Deepa Paul

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I found an old list of things I wanted to do. Most of them came true.

Sometimes the smallest act of belief is simply writing something down.

Apr 5 • Deepa Paul

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March 2026

PAPERBACK RELEASE! Ask Me: A Memoir of Daring to Love Differently is out today

My memoir is out in paperback, with a new title! Here's why and how we changed it

Mar 26 • Deepa Paul

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My daughter at 13: a melody figuring itself out

On independence, solitude, and mothering a newly minted teenager in Amsterdam

Mar 22 • Deepa Paul

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How to be angry without ruining your life

A handwritten permission slip for moving through anger

Mar 5 • Deepa Paul

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One of a thousand sheddings

On surgery, the skins we outgrow, and the selves that carry us through... plus a subscribers-only photo gallery

Mar 1 • Deepa Paul

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February 2026

My memoir is longlisted for the 2026 Women’s Prize for Non-fiction!

Hello, Mom? Does this mean I’m a serious writer now?

Feb 11 • Deepa Paul

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February 2025

After my husband, I thought I’d never introduce another man to my mother. Then I did

My homecoming was meant to surprise her. Turns out the surprise was on me

Feb 16, 2025 • Deepa Paul

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December 2024

COVER REVEAL! Ask Me How It Works: Love In An Open Marriage

A cover one year in the making. Pre-orders are now open!

Dec 11, 2024 • Deepa Paul

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September 2024

A love letter to my belly

A major surgery is about to take away the part of me I hated the most. I'm finding it surprisingly hard to say goodbye.

Sep 13, 2024 • Deepa Paul

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August 2024

Postcards from Rethymno

Memories and missives from a Cretan getaway.

Aug 21, 2024 • Deepa Paul

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July 2024

She's real, she's here, and she's beautiful

My book in my hands at last! Come and take an early look.

Jul 30, 2024 • Deepa Paul

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